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Breaking The Rules:
How to effortlessly combine all your favourite styles;
Adam and Maddy have the perfect blend of Hollywood elegance and glamour – a modernised town house charmed with rustic chic….and sequins! Imagine that Audrey Hepburn was the bride, and her wedding stylist was Doris Day. Could this work? I will show you how!
Last month I opened the wedding season with Maddy and Adam. I had already spoken with Maddy about her ideas for dresses and hair styling last year and about the fact that the ceremony venue was at The Pittville Pumps Rooms – the beautiful, iconic building in our little Spa town. Of course, in my head I imagined a simple elegance, with a touch of sparkle. Then I found that the reception was to be at a marvellous small hotel in town, and dining was ‘family style’ with trestle tables and a buffet of various platters of food. First question – do these styles match?
Well, who cares! Allow me to elucidate.
Time after time, I see brides getting bogged down with a ‘theme’. Remember, that it is YOUR wedding- no one elses. For, maybe, two years you have been pinning ideas, tearing pages from bridal magazines, visiting wedding fayres, collecting ideas for this, your perfect day. I will say that again because the emphasis is important. YOUR perfect day.
What I adored about this particular wedding is how they mixed cool glamour of Maddy’s dress, hair and head piece, with the most marvellous fur boleros to create the ultimate chic and then also intertwined this with lots of soft, feminine Baby’s Breath – Gypsophilia.
Those delicate white flowers that seem to last an age and never fail to make a significant impact whether used in small dainty doses or huge frothy bundles. The bridesmaids were adorned in an elegant navy that complemented the groom perfectly.
The reception had a glorious, eclectic classy feel with the ‘clink clink’ of glasses, the chatter echoing throughout the various reception room and little ones nipping in and out of nooks and crannies.
For the ‘dinner’, three enormous trestle table and various benches were set out and the overall atmosphere was extremely friendly and sociable.
Now…..do you really need to have the ceremony and reception and party all on the same day?
Maddy and Adam had a late ceremony, 3pm, dinner at 6pm, relaxed drinks over a long sociable dinner, card games, general good-natured banter and then everybody happily retired to bed in a relaxed and satisfied nature.
The next evening was to be the real party time. All were feeling refreshed and ready to dance the night away. In continuing the themes of the previous day, the food room was a buffet style. The tables were adorned with pink sequined table runners, pink macaroons, the ever popular an flexible Baby’s Breath and some pretty twinkle lights. In the main hall of the barn were the most glorious Light Letters supported by pink uplighting around the room. The bar was set up with beers in ice caskets and bottles of fizz strategically placed to finally enhance the feel of just celebration.
So, what is my point?
Well, you are spending all your time (and none of us live forever,) planning your perfect day…. So, have it your way! Rules are made to be broken. Putting your own spin on an all-time favourite is a sure-fire way to have all your guests chattering about your day for years to come. Who knows what they themselves will come up with after seeing and enjoying your very personal and imaginative trials and tribulations? The world s very much their oyster – or lobster – or any delicious tasty take they can envisage, with a little help from you.
So are you an Audrey or a Doris? Who cares! Channel them both in and see what you can achieve. After all, life is all about having fun before you run out of time. So give it all and, who knows – you may start a trend that will go viral – with your name on it!